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Age 30’s Japanese mother Yoko S. has experience to stay in USA for 3 years in the past, because of her husband Huroyuki S. was an engineer of Japanese big company and his company had sent him to USA as a residential worker. Therefore, Mr. Moustache(Komori) has expected Yoko’s cooperation as a leader of Japanese mothers’ leader for mothers who would be coming to Mangalore to join our project. But, Yoko just refused this our hope, she had told me:”I don’t want to take any responsibility for it”. It has made me to diappointed with her, to tell the truth.

She wanted to be the first candidate of doing garment business among this Japanese project group, then the first person should take his/her leadership until other someone would be coming up. We thought so.
Anyway, we can not force her to do it, then I had to close my mouth on this firsts day.

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In the morning of 6th April 2012, the second coming group had arrived at Mangalore International Airport by Singapore Airlines.
This group was consists of 30’s mother: Yoko S., with her 2 years old daughter: Yui S. and below 1 year old son: Amane S. and Yumiko N., a friend of Yoko S.

Yoko’s husband had not come together, he has his job in Japan.
Ravi, Mr.Moustache(Komori) and me went to pick them up at the airport.

We picked them at the airport and dropped in the hotel which the first coming group has also stayed.

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I was extremely sad with one issue, why I was/am always alone in my past whole life, even though I’ve repeatedly expressed:”I’m alone! I’m lonely!”. I felt the same with this time’s happening. I felt that only my feelings were thrown away from others. Therefore, I cried indeed and I did not join a meeting to solve Yuri’s issue by Mr. Moustache(Satoru Komori).
From Komori’s report, such a conversation was talked also.

Komori: Do you understand what I have been writing in Group (of this project) on Facebook?
Yuri: Although I have read them, I could not understand.

I was very surprised to hear it, because our ‘Japanese commune’ project includes international migration from Japan towards India. This means that migrants persons should decide anything by own decision mind with minimum understanding of what he/she would proceed. Then, why she could decide to come to Mangalore without such an understanding? Komori and me were just surprised very much and could not understand. Because decision something by not own is very scary thing for us. Two of us were just surprised so much……

Anyway, second coming group would launch in Mangalore in soon also. This is consists of one 30’s mother, her 2 years old daughter/below 1 year old boy and her friend. Her friend will stay in Mangalore for a short while, in order to inspect Mangalore and support mother by baby-sitting. They would be arriving at Mangalore on April 6th 2012.

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Regarding Yasushi Tamaki, who had visited us in Mangalore for just one week had returned to New York as he had planned, without solving Yuri’s trouble which he made more confused. Besides, we were surprised with his words to Mr. Moustache:
“Mr. Moustache, let’s start our own religious organization. We will collect believers(adherent) for it!”
This “religious” does not mean “authentic religious”, means “collecting money activities from adherents”. Mr. Moustache and me never want to do such a fraud activity, we denied it immediately.
I didn’t understand why Yasushi proposed to us about such a fraud idea. What Mr. Moustache and me wanted to do it was, proper business activities which according the correct formalities.

Yasushi did not solve his over concerning by making Yuri’s small trouble more confused.
After all, Mr. Moustache tried to solve it by talking with Yuri.

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Within January 31st – April 1st 2012, total 4 adult Japanese with 1 small Japanese child had come to Mangalore except for Mr. Moustache and me. Two of them were just temporary stay, one had come from Okinawa, Japan, Middle of 20s age young lady, for inspection of our activities during about 1 month. Another one had come from New York, USA, he and his wife are Japanese, but they migrated to US by reason of his wife’s artist activity, for also inspection of our activity and Mangalore itself for just one week.
They had visited Mangalore since the end of March 2012, young woman from Okinawa: Nanako K. had stayed in a hotel at first, then later shifted to a shared apartment with the first arrival group(Yuri, Kiriko and Daisuke). Another one from New York: Yasushi Tamaki has stayed in our shifted one house since April 1st(We shifted from one-bedroom flat for temporary stay towards four-bedrooms’ independent house on April 1st 2012).
We brought them for inspection of Mangalore and explained our project ideas etc.

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Then, a small issue has happened.
More than 90% of Japanese people are not good at speak English, coming Japanese people for this project was the same, they were not good at English. Therefore, Mr. Moustache thought of English training for coming people, we had one trial lesson of home teaching English altogether. This trial’s teacher was very kind to speak slowly for better understanding of lessons though, Yuri was in panic and only stared me with her freezing eyes. She only stared me during all the time of this trial lesson, she could not say anything even one word in English, by reason of her incredible strong rejection against English.
As soon as this trial session finished, Mr. Moustache proposed one idea; participants to be divided into ‘group lesson’ and ‘individual private lesson’. Because participating group lesson with other members is too much tough and stressful thing for Yuri, she would better to participate individual private English lesson in the morning time, three times a week, then she can learn by her studying speed with relaxing, she does not have o mind about other members. But, as soon as Yuri had heard about this proposal, she suddenly started to say the reasons why she can not participate this English lessons, like:’I have to prepare a lunch for my son every morning and I have to drop him to preschool every morning, so I can not attend!’. Actually, the place she should participate classes is just on the way to her son’s preschool, means attending the classes is never difficult. Every morning she can drop her into preschool, the venue of lessons is just 1-2 minutes far from preschool, and she can take her individual private English lesson for 1-2 hours, then the pick up time of preschool is coming in soon, it is very rational perfect idea.
However, Yuri only efforts to explain why she “can not” participate it repeatedly. According to listen her description, all of us have lost ideas why she had been in such a panic. The point of topic was just ‘participating English classes’ though, all of us had been fallen into the state of confusion.

Later, I’ve realised that she just wanted to avoid participating and study English. Then, she would better to say ‘I don’t want to participate classes, because I don’t want to study English’. If she did so honestly, nobody was in the state of confusion, nothing had become such a troublesome big confusion issue.
Yuri’s telling reason was just an expression of her honest feeling which she does not want to attend English classes though, Yasushi Tamaki had made this issue into a bigger problem. He was just a temporary guest for only 1 week, he was not a leader of this group, but he started to take control in front of us. This is really impolite behave for us, so Mr. Moustache made all to close the meeting discussion, because Yasushi must make things to be more confused, Mr. Moustache and me already fully realised.

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Within January 31st to March 31st 2012, other a few Japanese persons also had come to Mangalore by information of Mr. Moustache and me on the internet(Twitter, Facebook etc), because many people who wanted to escape from Japan were there these Social Networks sites. The first group of this Japanese Township project was consists of 37 years old mother with her son(3 years old) and 21 years old young lady, they had arrived at Bangalore International Airport on March 14th 2012, I went for Bangalore Airpot to pick them up, because Mr. Moustache requested me to do it. Therefore, I went for Bangalore by only myself from Mangalore by night bus. I succeeded to pick them up at the exit of Arrival lobby of Bangalore Airport and accompanied with them towards Mangalore by airplane flight.

Since this first group had arrived at Mangalore, burden for my body increased a little, because 37 years old mother: Yuri K. frequently forgot to look after his 3 years old son: Daisuke K. even along the roadside. Whenever she had forgotten it, I tried to caught Daisuke for save his safety from vehicles, it made me very tired.
I’m not sure whether this was the reason though, anyway my physical condition became very bad on March 18th, I was transferred to hospital, and stayed in hospital for 2 nights, among one of them I was in ICU.

My patient’s report said it was just a virus fever.
However, I felt so nervous about hospital’s charge, because our budget is very limited one, we don’t have any assets or property in Japan either. Fortunately, hospital charge was not expensive compared with Japanese ones, but for these 2 days hospital life made me to feel stress about my worrying for hospital charges…..

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We had stayed in “1 bedroom type apartment” in Mangalore, which monthly rent was Rs 16,000(240USD). Until now(October 2016), we’ve never seen such an expensive rent for one-bedroom type apartment, therefore invisible too much commission was included among this Rs16,000. During these 4 and a half year, the range of rent for one-bedroom type apartment have been from Rs6,000(90USD) to maximum Rs10,000(150USD). Therefore, this Rs16,000 rent must be included too much commission for Ravi Raj Rao, we think so…
If in case of commission rate was just 10-20%, we have a margin to understand about it a little…but 1.5times~double rate is very bad for us, it was the same as fraud for us from our view. Because the location was not along the main road, either. Even if it would be along the main road, still Rs16,000- rent price has not been there as far as I’ve checked a hundreds number of property information….


We had stayed in this apartment since February 12th until April 1st 2016.

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Since S. Adiga went back to USA, we asked Ravi Raj Rao to find out a temporary room for stay. He found out one “1 bad room with kitchen and living room” type apartment though, I was wondering why this room’s rent was Rs16,000…because the lowest price which I’ve seen on the real estate website was Rs8,000 in Mangalore when I’ve checked it. I was wondering funny, but Mr. Moustache did not claimed it, so I followed it…
(From now my remind for the past, I should asked and checked it against Ravi Raj….because all rooms which he arranged were too much costly compared with the average in Mangalore….we found it in later….it was our mistake…..we feel very very regret with these big loss…..)

Also proceeding the main project’s arrangement by Ravi Raj was basically no there since S. Adiga went back to USA. We’ve not met any city corporations’ officers or stakeholders, neither politicians……where Ravi brought us was only real estates sites, property, some tourism places, cultural places……I was wondering why any arrangement for the main project was no there….. Nobody will come for enjoying their long stay in this project, we needed the strong cooperative fundamentals for proceeding the project……
Ravi showed us his big site of property which had just started to launch outside of Mangalore city…..but the location was not good for any foreigners’ stay, infrastructure is poor, shopping facilities were almost nothing nearby, then we can not recommend his site for any foreigners….. Besides, his site did not have any partnership with a big real estate developer, then it would be very difficult to get success in a short period, it takes time, we feel that almost 20 years would be required if he really want to get success by this property site. As soon as Mr. Moustache and me had seen his site, we immediately found this forecast, because we have seen a plenty number of development process in Japan in our past life, we have many real data in our brain…..

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Mr. Moustache and me were not satisfied with “Integrated total briefing about the structure of Japanese Township Project”, but it was time up to stay of S. Adiga, hewent back to USA. For the first week of our stay in Mangalore, we were just brought away place to place only, without previously guidance with description. Since we were in Japan, Mr. Moustache had sent his all ideas to S. Adiga through a Japanese business consultant who introduced S. Adiga to us, but still anyone need the previous guidance with description is required, anyone need the integrated total briefing is required, because this project is huge scale expected which is required the cooperation by a plenty number of people.


Within the first week of our stay in Mangalore, we moved from the first good hotel towards more reasonable hotel, because we never wanted to waste our limited budget. We moved one budget hotel which hotel manager is a long term friend of Ravi Raj Rao for last 25 years.
We needed to find out the temporary room to stay also, it should be reasonable, I do hope.
I do not like the thinking as “Japanese should stay at rich place”, because really rich Japanese people are not all, and I have not become to be rich in my past whole life, so I would get serious damage by such a foreigners’ wrong misunderstanding.
Anytime, I just prefer to save cost in my life.

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In the morning of January 31st, Mr. Moustache, Japanese business consultant Mr.K and me were at Bangalore a International Airport, in order to leave for Mangalore with NRI in USA; Sadashiv Adiga. S. Adiga gave us the voucher of E-ticket, and we left from Bangalore to Mangalore by early morning flight. It was just 1 hour flight.
When we launched on Mangalore International Airport, friends of Sadashiv Adiga: Mr. Ravi Raj Rao and S. Kumar came to catch us. They brought us to one of the best hotel in Mangalore city, a brother of Dr. R. Adiga came to meet us also, they welcomed us so much, but I was personally worrying about our budget, because hotel grade was too good for us, seemed very expensive.

Sadashiv Adiga can stay in Mangalore for this time’s stay is only one week, our activities were as in the below photo files.

These seems like that this arrangement was extremely good though, I felt a doubt personally, because we could not discuss about the details for our ‘Japanese Township Project” with Sadashiv Adiga. He told us that we should ask anything what we want against Ravi Raj. However, I felt that we should discuss about proceedings and the detailed briefing from overview side how to proceed things well. Such a guidance was never there, I was wondering why they did not do it. It was the first time to visit India for Mr. Moustache and me, so we needed such a BASIC guidance about India, but it was nothing……….
These several days schedule was full of inspection and some discussion only, but “integrated total briefing” was no there. I thought it was a partial arrangement, to be honest…

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